Engagement Sessions: A Quick Guide For Clients! |
October 7 2011 |
I know there are a select few of us who rise and shine ready and prepared for lookin’ fine… but there is a larger group of us that wake up with no idea how to put a Kardashian-style outfit together . Engagement sessions aren’t supposed to be stressful, but when a couple realizes that this is their very own opportunity to be followed around by the paparazzi catching them in sweet cuddles and venti- Starbucks’, I understand why so many come to me in a panic about how to dress for success. Fret no more, my dear clients (and even those that aren’t my clients!), use this as a personal guide for how to make sure you can easily pass for brilliant and beautiful.
(Disclaimer, other photographers with varying styles may or may not agree with this. This guide corresponds to the style we shoot in and what we’ve discovered works best)
1) NO logos (or phrases)- This is probably the first thing that comes out of my mouth when talking about what to wear. Why no logos? Logos are meant to be seen, and if you’re wearing a shirt with a large ‘POLO‘ or ‘GIRL’S JUST WANNA HAVE FUN‘ across the chest, that is what will be seen, not you. These images are about you, and who you guys are, not what you’re wearing. Save your giant horses and ‘Juicy‘ bottomed pants for home.
2) Be aware of your environment- Think about where the session will take place, and what type of clothing is appropriate. Will it be casual? Outdoors? Cold? Hot? While your new 5-in Louboutin’s may be gorgeous, they likely are not suitable for hiking around Central Park (or any park!). If the shoes are a clutch part of your outfit, consider bringing comfy ones to walk around in and changing when it’s time to shoot. Alternatively, if you’re looking for a modern and classy background for your images, such as the W Hotel or a City-Skape, jeans and a t-shirt likely won’t accomplish the look you are going for. If you don’t think ahead, I’m not photoshopping a Calvin Klein suit onto you…
3) What about colors? – Here’s where it gets a little more tricky. Colors can be funny, what looks great on one skin tone may not looks good on another. If you’re unsure of what looks great with your skin tone, check out our good friend Google. In general, though, Good colors include: pinks, blues, reds, sow yellows, blacks (NOT head to toe), and pastels. I always tell my clients to stay away from white since it can rob your pictures of their uniqueness and become harshly bright during day-time sessions. As for patterns, patterns are a great way to vary up your color palate but beware of huge stripes, large flowers, or crazy prints. Those can draw more attention to your clothing than you want, and remember the images are about you, not what you’re wearing.
4) ‘Pants on the ground, pants on the ground..’: Wear Clothes that FIT- Why am I even saying this? Your clothes shouldn’t just fit your for your engagement session, they should fit you in life. Baggy jeans, oversized shirts, too-tight dresses, or sleeves that cut into your arms are a few of the more popular violations on the ‘clothes that fit’ guide. Your apparel should accent your body, not hide it. It should flatter your body, not draw attention. Lines and ripples in the wrong places caused by too-tight clothing (or too-loose hanging fabric) will look awful in your pictures. Yes, certain styles may be popular, but if the camera adds 10lbs and your tunic adds 20… You’re on your way to hating how you’ll look.
I want you to look your best and be comfortable in your clothes. The more comfortable you are, the better your images will look.
Extra Tips:
Makeup For Women: There’s no need to cake it on like you’re going on stage for your next Broadway production. Of course, you don’t want to be so au naturale that you look sick. Makeup is meant to highlight features, not (necessarily) create them. The general rule of thumb is to wear your makeup slightly heavier than usual. I recommend 100% going to get your makeup done for the session. Your artist will know how to make you look your best for the camera (their trained for that!!), plus who doesn’t love a great pampering?
Makeup for Dudes: Hey guys, you’re not exempt! Nasty blemish? Razor Burn? It’s nothing a little concealer and powder won’t fix. You don’t have to tell the guys, and no one will know unless you decide to use the powder puff as a prop in the picture.
Shoes: If someone shows up to a session with me in white tennis shoes, I’ll assume they are wanting to go to DSW and shop first. This, of course, I am totally ok with, as DSW and I have a great relationship. Leave the white tennies at home, as well as the flip flops. Also, as mentioned before, if your cutes shoes aren’t made for walking, bring along some that are and switch to the cuties when your in front of the camera.
Tanning: I’m not sure some people realize how ‘tan’ they really are. Just to clear something up, ‘orange’ isn’t tan, it’s orange. In the camera it will look orange, and in 10 years your kids will be scared to eat carrots for fear they will turn into one. Please be wary of tanning before the engagement session, and if you must, please have your last lay about a week before the session. If you do tan, or maybe you just got back from the beach (why didn’t you take me with you!?), please think ahead as to weather you’ll have visible tan lines for your pictures. Tan lines are equally as distracting as a giant ‘POLO’ across your chest or a neon-orange Missoni Pattern. If you ask me to photoshop them out, I will glare at you evilly until you buy me wine and tell me a joke.
Hopefully this guide offers a world of information to create a successful ‘look’ for your engagement session. A warning to my clients, if you read this and neglect it, and then ask me to just ‘photoshop’ it out, don’t assume I just know how to make you look good, I also know how to photoshop on a mullet, zits, and 30lbs. Just kidding






















































